Historical clue formulations

• Joe Jackson's "___ Really Going Out With Him?" — 2020-12-06
• Joe Jackson's "___ Really Going Out With Him?" — 2008-02-13
• "This ___" (phone phrase) — 2001-09-08
• Joe Jackson's "___ Really Going Out With Him?" — 2000-03-01
• 1979 hit "___ Really Going Out With Him?" — 1998-10-07